Just in case I haven’t communicated this yet:
The adoption process can be overwhelming.
Surprise, surprise, I know. But it is only overwhelming if you attempt to do this alone.
As our adoption process moves along I am finding myself exploring a number of resources: websites and blogs. I am also talking with others who have adopted. Those conversations have proved to be extremely valuable and I will continue to seek people out. Just yesterday I was speaking with a good friend/colleague/mentor about our adoption process. He had gone through the adoption process a while back. I was sharing some feelings I was (and was not) experiencing and listened to this wise man share what he went through. I found a sense of peace come over me as I realized that I wasn’t abnormal; that my feelings were not necessarily wrong. It was like God had ordained this conversation for that particular moment. After I hung up the phone I prayed and thanked God for His faithfulness.
Wow…God is amazing.
The websites and blogs I have come across have also proved to be valuable. I recently came across a blog from a family in our area who is adopting ~ for the third time. I am thinking I will be in touch with them eventually. Recently, my wife and I were given a website that contained a number of adoption fundraising ideas. Some of them were so simple and brilliant. Ideas, support, prayers, etc are out there…you just need to look and access them.
So as I come across some of these sites I am going to be adding them to my new blog roll on the right hand side of the screen called “Adoption”. My hope is that people who stumble across my blog will find comfort, as I have, in knowing that they are not alone. And…if you are reading this and are in the adoption process, please feel free to share your resources here.
God is so amazing. I praise Him for those “little” moments when He reminds me of His presence. I am thankful for the people He has brought in our lives. And I hope that some day soon I can be a resource to someone going through this process; that God can use me to give someone what He has given me.
Praise be to God!
The pastor -|—
I know I said earlier that I would be keeping a low profile for a while…at least until after Easter, but I feel the need to raise the periscope a bit and see what is going on.
For a month or so I have been submerged in life as Lent hit me like a ton of bricks…but in a good way. I know a lot of pastors sometimes lament how busy Lent is; saying it is their busiest time of the year, but I think most would say that Lent is a very energizing time of the year (in a weird sort of way). Even though I have felt drained from time to time I wouldn’t trade this experience for anything. I think part of that thinking is realizing that it is not my energy that sustains me but God’s. As Luther says in his sacristy prayer, “…if this were left up to me I would certainly bring it all to ruin.” And I have felt that way many times. And…at times…I have even tried to do it myself almost bringing myself to ruin. But fortunately I have faithful friends, family and parishioners that have reminded me of who is truly in charge.
Part of this “ton of bricks” has been leading a small group based on the Book of Faith book “40 Days with the Lord’s Prayer” (I say this simply because I have never lead a small group study during Lent before. Sounds strange, I know, but we are in the process of revamping our education here at Salem). Seventeen people signed up to take this journey together. We work through the daily devotions each week, focusing on a petition of the Lord’s Prayer, then meet on Wednesday to review our week. So far it has been an enjoyable experience to hear people share their faith. Everyone has contributed to the discussion and we have learned a lot. I look forward to leading more small group studies.
There have been other things that have been parts of this “ton of bricks” but I won’t go into all those details. I think the main point for me is that these bricks haven’t crushed me because God is in control. God has been faithful. God has given me strength. All of that is encouraging as I face a week of preparation before Holy Week hits. Over all, Lent has been a blessed one for me…and I hope for others as well. God has been faithful.
So with that I lower the blogging periscope and return to the busy world of Lent. I thank those who have offered encouragement to me. I thank those who have been understanding. And I am grateful I have an outlet like this to share my thoughts and open my heart up to anyone who would want to take a peek. God bless you this Lenten season and as you prepare to recognize and celebrated the death and resurrection of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Praise be to God, always and forever!